HOW TO BECOME A SOFT GIRL? SOFT GIRL STARTER PACK [english version]

 Hi, have you ever seen a girl that is so neat, feminine, cute and pretty at the same time and start to wonder.. How can i become more like her? I would call this kinda girl as a Soft Girl. Some soft girl traits are born with but it also can be build. 

Everyone have a chance to become a soft girl and I am here to show you how.

Here are some steps to help you get started with soft girl aesthetic:

1) INSPIRATION

The first step is to do your research on what type of style that you like the most. There are tons of social media platform such as Instagram, Pinterest and Tiktok. From there, try to build few version of the inspiration look that you would like to try. I know that some will associate the soft girl with more pastel color but i would say not too limit yourself and try to explore more colorful outfits as well. You can pick and choose all those inspirations and create your own version of the'soft girl'.

2) WARDROBE

Curate a wardrobe filled with more soft and girly piece of clothes. I would suggest more dressed, skirts, flowery blouse, oversized sweaters (Ariana coded hehe) and some cute and flow tops. Remember that you don't need to have 100 new clothes to make a perfect wardrobe. Try to be more minimalist and mix and match all of the options you have. That way, you will look more presentable and smart! 

3) DECOR

Decor here is more on how you design and decorate your space. As example, your room decor. Transform your personal space with more aesthetic ideas such as soft blankets, teddy bear, fairy lights and cute painting. I would say to try keep your wall to white color as it is more easier for you to match with any room accessories. White background match with everything, just trust me on this :)

4) HOBBY

Find the hobby that can keep your aesthetic such as reading, painting, knitting and writing. But personally,  think if you focus on one interest and it can be anything, it will surely bring your own sophisticated and soft aura. Even though your hobby can be hiking or swimming. Just make sure to keep your mind into your interest and do well on it. It will automatically lead you to your soft girl era.

5) ATTITUDE

Soft girl for sure someone who is nice to everyone. It is the girl that is the most popular because of her nice attitude. Be kind to everyone and talk softly rather than shouting out of nowhere. Try to keep your soft pose such as cover your mouth while laughing or yawning. But it is important to not being fake and let all of the positive attitude come naturally from the inside.

6) PHOTOGRAPHY

If you want to start presenting yourself in social media, you can try to take the aesthetic photos such as cafe, park, garden and art museum. Then try to edit your photos to match the aesthetic vibe to enhance your overall presence. I suggest to use free preset on VSCO or Snapseed. 

That's all my simple sharing and tips for today! I hope you guys can follow through and remember that the soft girl aesthetic is all about embracing your femininity and showcasing a gentle, caring, and creative side of yourself. Make it your own and enjoy the process of expressing your unique style.

Till next time. xoxo.