MY STORY HADAP COWORKERS KURANG ADAB!

Hollaaa! Harini i nak share perasaan i sikit and if korang yang baca ni pun rasa benda yang sama, i hope we both can get over this!!! 

Kisahnyaaaa i have a very small team, my boss, my senior and me! Disebabkan company i sangat laa hierarchy so macam mana pun i kena report to my senior then baru la he will report to my boss. My senior ni lelaki tau, a chinese guy in his 30s. At first i rasa okay jee la dengan dia macam kelakar then boleh buat sembang, banyak common topic jugak kitorang ada contohnya movie or kpop. So i was quite happyyy to have him in my team. 

Tapi now after a year kerja together, i dah nampak true color dia. At first dia cakap dengan i dia ada OCD so tempat dia selalu kemas lol then i cam okay noted. Then i perasan dia akan selalu tanya i benda yang sama berkali kali okay contohnya kan ‘email tu you dah reply ke? ‘report tu you dah siap?’ ‘document ni you dah send kan?’ OMGGGG kalau sekali takpe laaaa ni berkali kali in a dayyy tauu i dah start rasa rimas gilaaaa. Tapi what can i do? I layan je la dengan sabarnya jawab all the questions again and again. 

Lepastu dia akan questioned my  ability tau contohnya cara i bercakap dengan stakeholders. I faham dia nak ajar but he was being sooo rude. Dia pernah cakap dekat i yang i ni baik sangat lembut sangat nanti orang pijak jeeee then i ni nampak macam orang bodoh. WEH kau siapa nak panggil aku bodoh?? After that kan setiap kali i call anyone, dia pasti pasang telinga nak dengar kononnya nak ‘mentor’ bwekkkk hahahahaha geram i! Lepas je i call anyone dia akan komen cakap i ni cakap macam robot la, baik sangat la, acah comel la, nampak gelabah laa… I SUMPAH TAK TAHAN GILA. 

Why he feel the need to be so rudeee… 

Tu baru sikit tau yang paling i tak tahan harini kan, dia dengan santainya cakap dekat i why my skin tone is darker dari perempuan melayu lain, is it sebab i from kedah which is kampung. I dengar tu kan i cam speechless gilaaaaa. How low your EQ can be bro??? I memang nak menangis dah sebab kalau i marah memang reaction i is menangis dulu 😭 Tapi i cakap laa malay skin tone memang ada macam macam, ada yang putih, gelap sikit, gelap banyak, tan skin, fair skin semuaa then dia compare i dengan colleague i yang lain like kenapa dorang cerah sikit dari i then i macam nak terduduk dekat situ tau. You are a 30 years old man, bukan budak kecil tauu how can you be so insensitive???? After that i diam jee i don’t explain myself or whatsoever (sebab i nak menangis hahahaha) then habis macamtu je topik tu.

OKKKK! First of all im soooo proud of my skin tone, a bit tan but so whattt i think im prettyyy and its all that matter. I rasa i cantik i baik i independent and i work very hard so who are you to judge. I ada banyak benda yang i nak cakap dekat dia but bila fikir balik i macam nope! Im not gonna deal with you and your low common sense. Such a manchild (shout out to sabrina carpenter hehehe) and he is the most thoughtless person ever. Haaa i jarang rant dekat my blog hahahahaha but harini i sangat geram. He’s gonna be the reason i resign one day lol. 

Tapi lepas i duduk and hadam my feelings kan, i just sedar yang he just plain stupid. It was my fault sebab i baik dengan dia dari awal and sebabkan kebaikan i, dia ambil kesempatan by being rude. So what i am gonna do now is, i akan let him be, i cant change who he is as a person. I akan cuba jadi lebih kuat and focus only on my work. Kalau dia komen on my work or try to micromanage me again, i will reply jeee but with no soul. I dont care, i buat kerja i, clock in clock out balik! I sedar jugak yang i taknak oversharing at all dekat dia or any of my coworkers lol just keep it professional. Ibarat macam ada dua personality laa and im really good at being fake and berlakon hahahahaha. Sakit jugak hati ni kalau i terlalu kisah pasal that brat kannn. 

 His words doesn't reflect me as a person but more to his own behaviour.

 

Korang please la doakan i diberikan kesabaran yang tinggi untuk hadap semua ni 🥲 I hope anyone yang kena hadap coworkers yang rude macam i ni or worst, akan tetap bertahan. TAPI kalau tak tahan sangat, ingat tau kita ni hidup ada pilihan so boleh je bila bila nak angkat kaki. Rezeki Allah tu luas, jangan risau :) 

Till next time. xoxo.